One of our most frequently asked questions is....HOW?

How do I kiss him/her for the first time?
How will I know how to kiss?
How do I know when to open my mouth?
 

Well, rest assured, you'll know. It's not the best answer, but it's the most truthful one.
We're still going to give you some tips and hints for making that kiss a good experience for both of you.

Are we ready to kiss?

There's a flow of energy between two people that is usually easy to read. Do you like each other? Have you had a good time? Do you want to kiss him/her? If you do, chances are he/she does too.
There are ways to make sure. Lean in a bit...get closer. If the other person doesn't pull away and especially if they lean in, they are likely feeling the same way.

How do I kiss him/her for the first time?

Softly and slowly. You don't want to bump faces on your first time out. A sweet brush of lips feels good whether it's your first time or your hundred and first time.
Remember that a kiss is a very sensory act. You'll be close enough to breath the person in, to feel their skin against yours.
Relax!
Be aware of your partner. Is he/she leaning in or holding back waiting for you to move? If they're leaning in, you can gently lay one hand against their cheek and lean to meet their lips.
Begin with your lips closed. Keep it soft and light.

How do I know when to open my mouth?

When french kissing...part your lips slowly against the other persons lips. Make sure they're also parting their lips. A kiss is a partnership and it's important that you only go as far as the other person is comfortable with. Remember that the slower and softer the kiss begins, the sweeter the memory it will leave.
This is a time to go slowly. You're exploring each other for the first time and there's no finish line. It's not a race to see who can get the most tongue in. You can begin by tracing the other persons lips as they part against yours. This is a dance...you can pull your tongue back to see if the other person follows. You can brush the tip of your tongue across the tip of theirs.
This is a good time to pull back gently and look at the other person. A good kiss is full of new beginnings....lips pulling away and brushing back feels good and it lets you both decide whether you want to keep the kiss going.

A kiss should linger. There's a soft tingle and a flutter of excitement that you can't miss if a kiss is good.

Not so good kisses:

Bumpy rides

These kisses are more like a collision of faces than a sharing experience.
Don't go too fast.

Wet Wet Wet

Too much mouth and tongue before the kiss even begins leave you with a bad taste in your mouth.
Don't go too fast.

Peckish kisses

You're not a chicken. Better just a brush of lips against each other than a peck.
Try it against your own hand... peck and then brush and see which one feels better.

Habit forming or habit sharing?

Make sure your teeth are brushed and you smell good
This isn't the time to have someone hooking the gum out of your mouth with their tongue or pulling back because all they can taste is cigarettes or garlic.
 
 

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