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    hello..I,ve hardly any really good friends in school and i feel really lonely
    sometimes..i see people around me all laughing happily with their friends but
    sometimes..i am all alone..coz i'm in a different secondary school now and all
    my good friends are in another school..i really feel like transferring
    sometimes...anyway,
    I'm beginning to feel the stress in secondary school life and i don't like my
    new school..that's worse...i'm afraid i can't cope with my work..i'm beginning
    to have a phobia on tests and exams..i'm really afraid i can't do well this
    year........

Answers:

From: A friend
            Hi. I think you should care about your work more than making friends. Your studies are your future but friends are likely to betray you.

From:  Mom
    I don't agree with "a friend" that friends are likely to betray you. It sounds like both you and "a friend" are having difficulties. A new school is always difficult and high school is the most difficult time of all. Is it possible for you to phone and meet with your old friends outside  of school? I'm assuming you haven't moved far away.
    Also, it's good that you've met some new friends. They probably feel lonely  too in a new school, talk to them and make them feel comfortable and your loneliness  will go too.  Once you have done a few of the test and exams, you'll feel better about them,  you'll know what's coming.
    Right now, you need to take care of yourself and be your own best friend. Don't  beat yourself up if you're not popular.
    Here's a secret, even the popular people don't think they're popular. To them,  a lot of their friends seem like only aquaintances or not real friends. Really.
    And talk to your Mom or a good friend about your feelings, that helps too.