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From: Kelly S.
    Subject: WHY ME?????

    Hi
I have a major crush on this new boy in our class.I told my close friend about this crush.They both went on this school trip I didn't go to but when they came back she told me not to get mad but that she was going out with him.I decided to forget about him but it is practically imposible.He is so perfect ineveryway.
    Everytime he talks to me I feel like I'm in heaven. Should I be feeling guilty  for these feelings?But she is the one who betrayed me first by going out with   him eventough she new I liked him. Should I try and talk to him about my feelings  or make him notice me?I am very confused please help me!

Answers:

From: just another Mom
      There is absolutely no reason for you to feel guilty.
    And believe me, when two girls fall in love with the same boy their friendship  is put to a hard test. Whoever the boy chooses the other girl will always feel  bad.
    What your friend did wasn't very nice but she took her chance, because she was  might thinking that she loves him more than you do.
    It's nothing wrong with taking your chance too. But be prepared that he might not has the same feelings as you have, and make sure you can take a NO. However it turnes out tell your girl friend: "I hope you understand, but I had to try." (And she should understand, because she did the same.)

From:  Mom
      Well, I can't beat the advice already given!
    Except to note that your friend taking the boy you had an eye on has already strained your friendship. That wasn't a very nice thing for her to do.

From: Amanda
    Subject: Moms-what are you thinking???

    NO NO NO NO NO
    When your friend "took" him from you, he wasn't yours! You liked him, you wanted him, but he was free market and I'm sure it wasn't a big plot on your friends part, they likely just clicked on the trip and mutually decided that it worked for them.
    What you're proposing now is to actually break up a relationship! That's just not right.
    Stop and think about it. Do you want to rip this relationship  apart and likely lose both of them as friends? She sure would have more right to be mad than you did.
    I think you already know the answer. If you were a boyfriend stealing bitch, you'd have done it already :-) Keep being a  good friend. Show your girlfriend by example what she maybe  should have done in the beginning........then get out there and  find yourself a much better guy than him. He's out there!!!  good luck girl